Enough said.

"Rather than be surprised and disappointed or wonder how some problems with your child found its way into your life, you must face that it did happen and will probably happen again in the next few hours, days, or weeks. Consequently, it's important that you not get sidetracked by your resistance or anger, but accept that parenting problems will be a part of each day and put this one on the agenda to be embraced and handled to the best of your ability." Bobbie Sandoz, Parachutes for Parents, 1993.